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actually im kinda getting that at the moment, i have a crush on a friend of mine, she is actually kinda normal, (i'm pretty sure i could get her to join the fighting 501st with me) and lucky for me she is having trouble with her boyfriend, but wont break up with him until she has a sure thing of someone who wants to date her... i just dont really want to swoop in and take advantage of the situation

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It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy.  Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out sad  Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC smile

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lol, too right. I have no GF, but i dont need love to keep me happy, anyway. I have my action figures ( hugs knees and rocks back and forth, with mad, demented look on face ) lol big_smile

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see this is why magic the gathering is my friend, theres all kinda of poeple to go hang with

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

actually im kinda getting that at the moment, i have a crush on a friend of mine, she is actually kinda normal, (i'm pretty sure i could get her to join the fighting 501st with me) and lucky for me she is having trouble with her boyfriend, but wont break up with him until she has a sure thing of someone who wants to date her... i just dont really want to swoop in and take advantage of the situation

Thats the best thing to do. Dont rush things, but let her know you like her at somepoint. Things will fall into place.

"Trample The Weak, Hurdle The Dead"

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cloneapart wrote:

It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy.  Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out sad  Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC smile

my suggestion
kick his shebs

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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cloneapart wrote:

It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy.  Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out sad  Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC smile

Ditch them both for they apparently do not care about your feelings.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

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Well I dunno about ditching them. I mean, did either of them even know about what you felt?

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I always get the 'do they know how you felt', but what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'.  I wish I could kick him in the, ahem, shebs but it's not even worth my time, guess I'll just look for a diff guy, but got to make sure he likes sw as much as I do of course tongue

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cloneapart wrote:

what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'.

Well you could try that....

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Adeptus_Astartes wrote:
cloneapart wrote:

what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'.

Well you could try that....

isnt that what they expect guys to do?

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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terra wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:
Adeptus_Astartes wrote:

Well you could try that....

isnt that what they expect guys to do?

Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).

terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.

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Si Titran wrote:
terra wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

isnt that what they expect guys to do?

Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).

terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.

see that approach gets me into the friend zone

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:
Si Titran wrote:
terra wrote:

Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).

terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.

see that approach gets me into the friend zone

Sorry to hear that. But i do think it is a good idea to be friends first. I just don't always know how to make it more. That's why i'm direct and like guys who are the same.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

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Si Titran wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:
Si Titran wrote:

terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.

see that approach gets me into the friend zone

Sorry to hear that. But i do think it is a good idea to be friends first. I just don't always know how to make it more. That's why i'm direct and like guys who are the same.

see thats my problem, i never take advantage of a person, but i try and take advantage of the situation... which gets difficult to do since the two seem to commonly overlap so often

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that.  I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck

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I landed a great relationship the first try, so those of you with problems, don't ask me; I can't relate    big_smile

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cloneapart wrote:

I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that.  I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck

if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head wink

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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terra wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:
cloneapart wrote:

I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that.  I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck

if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head wink

Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.

There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.

"Trample The Weak, Hurdle The Dead"

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Chaplain Grimaldus wrote:
terra wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head wink

Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.

There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.

Yes. Independent meaning willing to take responsiblity for what and who are in their life, as apossed to stubborn which means unwilling to compromise and see other points of view. No one should want to be stubborn.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
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Si Titran wrote:
Chaplain Grimaldus wrote:
terra wrote:

Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.

There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.

Yes. Independent meaning willing to take responsiblity for what and who are in their life, as apossed to stubborn which means unwilling to compromise and see other points of view. No one should want to be stubborn.

well there are some things that are good to be stubborn about

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I'm not stubborn tongue  No, I'm really not stubborn, but I can do things for myself and some guys just insist on helping me, which annoys me a bit because I can do things for myself.  I always catch myself after these moments of independance but by then, it's to late and it's hard for me to change that streak of independance.

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cloneapart wrote:

I'm not stubborn tongue  No, I'm really not stubborn, but I can do things for myself and some guys just insist on helping me, which annoys me a bit because I can do things for myself.  I always catch myself after these moments of independance but by then, it's to late and it's hard for me to change that streak of independance.

well there are some things a polite guy might get flustered by, like opening doors

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Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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I'm not talking about the normal politeness, although things like opening doors and such is appreciated.  I'm talking more taking politeness to the next level of being a bit pushy.  There might be hope yet though, new kid at school is kinda cute and flirty tongue

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cloneapart wrote:

I'm not talking about the normal politeness, although things like opening doors and such is appreciated.

Call me old school but that stuff to me is something that I make a habit to do.  From the places I've been I have noticed a few things.  This old lady was walking into a store and some guy dashed in front of her and didn't even hold the door in front of her.  So she nearly smashed right into it.  Personally that kind of stuff disgusts me.  It's as simple as taking a few seconds of your time to hold the door open.  Even just a extra shove as you are walking by helps. It seems the generation we are living in is the "me" generation.  It's these things that may appear small but really in the long run help out quite a bit.

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