noooooooooooooooo not that has-been Rick As...

(fairyblood you just betrayed your generation. LOL)
(and you're MEAN, you put that damn song in my mind now, LOL)

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lol Karson. yeah it's almost that.

ugh, Miba. Yeah that's with tanning lotion. My eldest daughter tried one a few weeks ago. Just a small area on her arm as a test. And indeed it turned orange. She's glad she didn't spread THAT all over, and now wears bracelets to hide the orange stain for the time it'll stay.

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Time to get you a MP3 player or something.



Hey, it's true Karson, and now you even post everywhere in double. tongue

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Miba wrote:

That is terrible, that's beyond terrible. It's made me somewhat speechless, at a loss for what to say. Does he have his own email, maybe? Like does his account list two separate email addresses? Or does he have a work one? Or does he have an instant messenger of some sort to where if it shows him being online, if so you could friend him and he'd see it next time he was on he'd see it? Unless they share that too. That is sort of a tricky situation.

Everyone has their own dream, and that should be the one they follow. You don't have to have the house with two kids two cars etc if that's not what you want. I'm leaning more towards being a hermit in the middle of the woods myself. wink

Hey there Miba

Hermitting in the middle of the woods sounds cool. tongue

I'm pretty sure he doesn't have much space of his own. She's surely pretty much all over most of his stuff. I have no clue how I'll contact him without having to deal with her first. It's like not really possible, I'll HAVE to deal with her.





fairyblood wrote:

Wow, she sounds psycho.

I don't want to add flames to the fire or anything but if your brother loves your grandmother that much I'd find a way to see him face to face with a copy of that letter she sent you. It's a bold and intrusive move and I may have no clue what I'm even talking about since I've never been married or had a real brother or sister, but what if he doesn't know she feels this way? That just doesn't seem fair to me. I hate watching people get manipulated by lovers.

Even if my advice isn't the best route, don't give up! Praying for you both!

Hey there fairyblood

Thanks for the prayers, it is really kind of you.

You have no clue to what extent that woman is psycho. I remember one day, we had a family reunion and she was there. She got a phone call, her grandfather had just died. It was terrible, we all felt sad for her, but then she went hysterical and the first thing she did was to yell "I need to kill somebody". My 4 years old daughter was right there close to her, let's just say I grabbed my toddler quick and went out of that house. It's not that I didn't feel sad about her grandfather dying but having her wanting to kill someone? With my little one right there? Ugh...

Thanks for the suggestion. Would be great if things were any closer to normal. It's the kind of stuff that harpy is loud and proud about, he probably knows all about what she thinks since long.

She's rich and beautiful and it looks great on paper to be married. And it makes a guy feel important when he "made it" materially. Not sure how he can still be sane though.

That woman is really a big problem. And a big part of the reason why I've been away from that part of the family for so long. She's a real Pandora's box to deal with, completely.

I really appreciate that you try to help. It is kind of you. To tell you the truth, it makes me tired just thinking of her at this moment, lol.

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Oh yeah some people abuse. They get out of the tanning salon nearly toasted brown, lol. Indeed that's too much.

there was the jerky also. Jerky. Jerk. Why not put a picture of a jerk with a wide smile on the bag? The type of guys you know you shouldn't trust, you know the smile is fake and the stuff is bad inside, but you keep going for more? He started to think it was...

Karson Fett wrote:

It sucks

Yeah. If I didn't have to understand all that complicated arithmethic s*, I'd just burn these books because they're so deeply boring. But if I want to widen my job possibilities as a web designer I have to be able to read/write code and detangle it when it's badly done and full of crap. Java and PHP are a very limit minimum, there's even more. Pretty designs alone aren't enough anymore over here. sad

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Karson Fett wrote:

It isn't that great

Yeah when you have it when you want it's just a random thing of life.

On girls it can look good though. The skin is less pinkish and uneven then. Most girls in the magazines have tans, so I suppose it makes us feel closer to what's considered beautiful when we have a nice tan as well.

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CeciliaCrimsondragonFett wrote:

Wow, that is...first of all, my condolences for your family, Terra. I can't even begin to imagine what you have gone through, and I am so sorry.

As for that woman.... ........The words I want to use, I cannot say, because this is a family board. She is bad news, though. No wonder he stopped talking to you; I -know- she forced him to. That relationship sounds very unhealthy. I know it's not my place to say this, but perhaps he might be better off if he divorced her.

Yeah. Thanks for your support. It's quite a Pandora's box.

When people talk about a successful life, with a marriage, your own house, a car, a job, etc. My bro and his harpy got all that. And I don't envy them one bit.

I got no crazy partner, no job taking most of my time awake, no neverending debts (got my student loan to repay, that's it)... my position might be a bit less close to the dream life, but I still think it is better. Watching people like them makes me think twice before matching with the first fool that comes like my bro did. Then you wonder how he could make it go for all these years, I guess some men can suffer forever in silence.

I think he's just happy that she decides everything in his place. I'd quickly choke in these conditions, but my brother is lazy to a sin extent. Lazy and attached to the material side of his life. It looks good on paper when you have everything they have, and I think he feels "important" that he "made it".

I didn't give up about talking to him again. I want to reply to her. She'll have to understand that my brother is *the* person I wish to reconnect with. You see, she's the kind to think a brother-sister bond isn't important, like far on a list of priorities. She thinks he should include her in this kind of things. If he does it's going to be all about her again and we won't be able to talk, him and me.

I really don't know how I'll deal with her. I'll let my subconscious work on it, eventually my intuition will "eureka" me.

Was sweet of you to pass and say something Cecilia. I hope the chat room is better soon so we can chat again one of these nights. Was fun. smile

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Karson Fett wrote:

Classic Rock!!!! AC/DC

Long time I didn't listen to that. Only got "Back In Black" at home. I used to have "The Razors Edge", but I have no clue where it went.

Lately it's still my old GnR. Can't seem to get enough of good old Axl Rose from the 90s.

he found something itchy on the side of his head. He scratched it a bit too hard and so it...

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Thanks people, you're all really nice. I really appreciate that you care about this. Unfortunately the news aren't really good...

Got news, yes, but not from him, from the wife, their FB account is apparently a shared one. Wife replied with a long letter, telling me how glad (yes, glad) she is that my grandmother is heavily sick with Alzheimer, forgetting everything and basically near death. That harpy wrote a whole paragraph where she revels about that. When I've shown this to my eldest daughter, she couldn't believe what she was reading.

That woman is insane, if that's the kind of things my bro hears all day, I can fairly understand why he picked a job that keeps him out of the house 80% of the time. He's a on-call security agent and NEVER refuses a shift, no matter when. I am GLAD I am single and not stuck with someone like her (male versions exist I am sure, lol).

Her letter was so stupid. Hey it's been 5+ years?? Maybe if I write to David, my only brother, I want to talk to David himself and that's it?? The fact that she replied in place of my bro made me so furious, I've received this a couple weeks ago and I couldn't post about it. I just didn't want to think about it. Stupid control freak b*. I think my bro's still able to reply to his own messages if he wants to.

Hey, my grandma can't even remember her brothers and sisters now!!! I can't have a conversation with her anymore, and she's still alive. Not for long. Where is that a good thing??? And now this b* is happy because soon she won't have to share my bro's freetime with her!!! My bro's always been close to my grandma, she partially raised him.

Now I don't even know if my brother ever read my message, or how to get to him. If I say anything the wife dislikes, she might just never let me have at him at all.

Wish I knew how to tell her "Look, I was trying to talk to David, please." without sounding rude or having her shut me away from him. If I just say it like that, it will sound like I ignored her message, she might just make things even worse. Heck, she's been talking bad of me behind my back for the past 10 years that she's with my bro, part of why things split. Really doesn't take much for her to just... get berzerk about someone. Or rather berzerk, period.

Sorry, I had to finally vent. It's been a couple weeks, this rolls and rolls in my head... Thanks for being there, vods. Wish me luck to find a way around her...

Karson Fett wrote:

My little laptop caught a virus

Hate when that happens.

If I didn't have the internet I couldn't get help online when I stun myself in deep boredom/confusion with overly technical Javascript/PHP books. And to think I used to have a head for numbers. Ugh.

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Karson Fett wrote:

Red heads burn EASY!

Not our fault, lol. Wish we didn't. I'd love a suntan, never could have one in my life, lol.

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Miba wrote:

One thing I'm noticing is the smilies are super tiny.

Yeah. They appear about the size of text "M" capital letter (if you count the antenna and padding), instead of custom-sized like before. Must be difficult for the admin to find time for the forum at the moment.

We can be happy that the boards are still functioning though. Some admins would just shut everything down until it's all set. At least here, even though it's "under construction", lol, we can stay in touch and keep sharing about Boba. smile

Hey there Fercho, welcome to the boards! smile

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There must be a lot of little margins and widths and heights to set. Everything that looks odd now is just all these little places where he usually put the customizations, like the smilies and stuff. Must suck to have to redo the little specifications all over again one by one.

It's getting closer to our usual BFFC already, so it's great. Wish I was such a CSS/coding wizard. I just read one chapter in a book about Javascript/PHP and I'm lost already tongue

Fett_II wrote:

oh how i wish i had a tattoo, just not sure of what to get. everyone's tats here are all so very cool and such (even the non-fett ones).

So, did you make up your mind? Got anything done finally??

At some point I was thinking about getting a Grim Reaper somewhere, probably behind a shoulder or something. It's not really "me" anymore though. Now I really don't know what I'd get. Not sure what symbol would mean enough to me to have it on me for life. I'd probably rather go with an airbrush on an object. One same object can be used everyday for several years, 10, maybe more. That's already a lot of time to "carry your brand label", it's still unique and yours, but it's changeable and removable.

I still think your tats are fantastic, people though.

as he tripped into a

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Can't wait to have it in order. There's a lot of crappy forums out there, while this one's really cool...

...but sometimes it's tough to just post now, lol.

(sorry about my impatience, lol, I just love this place...) tongue

and then Fantastic Four's The Thing joined the party, and then he...

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I got a redhead's skin, so I don't tan, I burn. Once I even burnt so bad, that my face looked like The Thing in Fantastic Four.

http://www.superherotimes.com/newsarchi … nt_up2.jpg

Ok, not as bad, but nearly, lol. I've always put on sun protection lotion in my little face since, lol, better.

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Nice stuff AbyssGk, so daring! Very nice picture there fairyblood! smile

and then watched each little piece of moldy cheese puff come to life and...

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Fett_II wrote:

i barely post in either thread now, so it's not tied to your account.

You're probably right.

I know you have it too, but in my last few posts I used the "edit" button a lot, so I thought maybe by going back and forth with it, something didn't record well and then it made a glimpse.

I really don't know enough about forums to know for sure. I don't know what bugs can happen when posts don't save/refresh properly. Probably none, lol.