Ale'ika Skirta wrote:
so i got complained at last night because my girlfriend decided that our relationship was getting boring because i talk about the same things every night any suggestions
If she didn't care about you, she wouldn't complain, she would let things go and just dump you. If she complains, it means you're important. She is trying to tell you something.
Seems to me like she's in lack of your attention. There might be an exterior factor bothering her too. That wouldn't help. But I think there's more.
I think she'd like to be in your f* spotlight, for once. It's not her losing interest in you, she feels like YOU lost interest in her. Maybe you don't feel you did, but it might be worth it to try spending a little while talking about HER for a change. With your FULL attention.
Tell her things that will make her feel interesting and attractive. Ask her about her past, about her secrets, about anything she never told you because you simply never asked. Women like to be listened to. It makes them feel important.
You can also ask if she'd like to do something new. An activity that she likes to do but that she never tried with you.
Last edited by terra (Wednesday, May 14, 2008 12:30 pm)
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