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smile Thanks, guys. I know I'm thin, I just can't help feeling fat. My point was that for some, there isn't really a "good enough" point. I know I shouldn't think like that, but it's hard not to.

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777 (edited by terra Wednesday, May 14, 2008 12:30 pm)

Re: Bf/Gf

Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

so i got complained at last night because my girlfriend decided that our relationship was getting boring because i talk about the same things every night any suggestions

If she didn't care about you, she wouldn't complain, she would let things go and just dump you. If she complains, it means you're important. She is trying to tell you something.

Seems to me like she's in lack of your attention. There might be an exterior factor bothering her too. That wouldn't help. But I think there's more.

I think she'd like to be in your f* spotlight, for once. It's not her losing interest in you, she feels like YOU lost interest in her. Maybe you don't feel you did, but it might be worth it to try spending a little while talking about HER for a change. With your FULL attention.

Tell her things that will make her feel interesting and attractive. Ask her about her past, about her secrets, about anything she never told you because you simply never asked. Women like to be listened to. It makes them feel important.

You can also ask if she'd like to do something new. An activity that she likes to do but that she never tried with you.

Cast iron and treadmills? Oh yes. Still sculpting me to what I really want to be, and I love it. :)

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i don't have a b/f...not really rushing to either. yea i want one and all but i don't want to get one then he's a jerk to me. and i don't want to date just anyone i want to actually feel something for the guy. so don't worry, u'll get one soon enough

"Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing."
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I am loking around right now. I have a profile on singlesnet.com. I'll see how it goes this year!

A man's worst enemy can't wish on him what he can think up himself. Yiddish saying

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Any females living in Cali looking for a bf? I'm available. e-mail me and we'll chat.

781 (edited by Ale'ika Skirta Friday, June 20, 2008 8:42 am)

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so i was broken up with which sucks
edit:
so this girl that was hitting on me for about a week, said yesterday that she shouldn't be doing that and that she only wants one guy that she is helping cheat on his girlfriend who is also her friend

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

edit:
so this girl that was hitting on me for about a week, said yesterday that she shouldn't be doing that and that she only wants one guy that she is helping cheat on his girlfriend who is also her friend

That's.....................sad

"You set a code to live by.  I won't be wronged, I won't be insulted...I won't be laid a hand on.  I don't do these things to other men, and I require the same from them."

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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

so i was broken up with which sucks
edit:
so this girl that was hitting on me for about a week, said yesterday that she shouldn't be doing that and that she only wants one guy that she is helping cheat on his girlfriend who is also her friend

Awww. Sorry about that. Sounds like you should try with different type of people.

Cast iron and treadmills? Oh yes. Still sculpting me to what I really want to be, and I love it. :)

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yeah the creepy thing is the girl that dumped me is still at my house almost every day

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

yeah the creepy thing is the girl that dumped me is still at my house almost every day

Whoa...what's up with THAT

"Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing."
                              -Optimus Prime

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i have a girl friend.
one of the coolest things about her, she doesent care that im a total star wars fanatic!
thats devotion. smile
she even drew a picture of me as a mando.

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Thats sweet and cute. Keep her then. MIne is less understanding about the Mando thing.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
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Si Titran wrote:

Thats sweet and cute. Keep her then. MIne is less understanding about the Mando thing.

You say that, but you once told me you never really told him about it.

Cast iron and treadmills? Oh yes. Still sculpting me to what I really want to be, and I love it. :)

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Well i'm honestly a bit shy to, because when he was like.. "what site are you on..?" and told him it was the Boba Fett Fan Club, and thats when he rolled his eyes and went "oooohh" and proceded to make some sort of sarcastic remark. Then there was the time i dare said "mandalorian princess" near him and got the same reaction. I don't think he approves. If i said anything in Mando'a around him... i'm sure we'd end up fighting over it.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

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If he acts like that around what you love most... I wouldn't wanna be with him anymore. What kind of long-lasting relationship would that be if you had to hide something that's such a part of you?

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I don't hide it really, I just don't talk about it to him really, or my family. They don't get it either. They all know I'm hardcore into Star Wars and a total geek, and yet my BF is still with me. I mean he likes Star Wars too, don't get me wrong. He's just isn't a fandalorian.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

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Conversion time. Start by getting him to read or play RepCom, especially Triple Zero. Thats how I got into them. Good old Kal'buir

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I agree with Werda Verd, that's how i got into Mando'a too.

"Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing."
                              -Optimus Prime

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seriously though,
my biggest concern when i got a girlfriend was what her reaction would be when she saw my boba fett cutout.
it went much better than expected.
if you get a gf/bf that understands your obsession, stick with em.
someone who accepts you for who you are is the best thing you can have.

Beneath this mask there is more than flesh. Beneath this mask there is an idea, Mr. Creedy, and ideas are bulletproof.

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regimas wrote:

if you get a gf/bf that understands your obsession, stick with em.
someone who accepts you for who you are is the best thing you can have.

I think it is amazing for me to have any, and one that is as accepting as he is. I have known people a lot less so. I know I shall never find one person that accepts all that I am, so I make due with close enough.

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

796 (edited by terra Thursday, June 26, 2008 8:07 am)

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Si Titran wrote:
regimas wrote:

if you get a gf/bf that understands your obsession, stick with em.
someone who accepts you for who you are is the best thing you can have.

I think it is amazing for me to have any, and one that is as accepting as he is. I have known people a lot less so. I know I shall never find one person that accepts all that I am, so I make due with close enough.

Guys can tend to be less understanding about these kinds of things. When your man doesn't like something you like, to hell what he thinks. If you think X is good, you may. To each their opinion.
tongue

Cast iron and treadmills? Oh yes. Still sculpting me to what I really want to be, and I love it. :)

797 (edited by Si Titran Thursday, June 26, 2008 9:51 am)

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terra wrote:
Si Titran wrote:
regimas wrote:

if you get a gf/bf that understands your obsession, stick with em.
someone who accepts you for who you are is the best thing you can have.

I think it is amazing for me to have any, and one that is as accepting as he is. I have known people a lot less so. I know I shall never find one person that accepts all that I am, so I make due with close enough.

Guys can tend to be less understanding about these kinds of things. When your man doesn't like something you like, to hell what he thinks. If you think X is good, you may. To each their opinion.
tongue

Agreed, and its not that I like everything he does either. He'll never try to stop me from it and visa versa. (if he did that would be the end real fast.)

Meat is murder...... tasty tasty murder.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."

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see my ex was really understanding about it... i mean i was even teaching her some mando'a

[i]Nu kyr'adyc, shi taab'echaaj'la.[/i]
Not gone, merely marching far away.-----[i]Mandalorian phrase for the departed[/i]

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i don't, but i'm 11 so wrong age for it.

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My ex read all the bios of Boba Fett from wikipedia and wookiepedia and starwars.com just so she knew who he was and why I liked him so much. We're in the process of 'making up'.

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