1 (edited by BFFC-Mel Friday, October 6, 2006 11:39 pm)

Topic: Alcohol

I am seventeen and I feel like I hate my life.  My girlfriend left me for another boy after a year.  I spent a year f#*king thinking that I loved this girl, and she completely destroyed me.  I hate myself because in all the scenarios I have been in, I haven't thought clearly.  Right now I'm drunk, and I hate myself because Boba Fett wouldn't drink.  He is my idol, and he knows what he is f#*kin doing.  I only wish that I hadn't even gotten involved, and that I was like Boba.  Boba is sad, yes, but at least he isn't hurting.  F#*king b*tches.  someone please just leave comments on this, and tell me what you think

lets make braclets that say WWBFD? instead of what would jesus do?  what would boba fett do?

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All I can say is that sucks dude.

According to the new history, Boba made a mistake with his love life when he was your age, but then he never loved again and as much as I love Boba, I don't think that's what you should do.

Your entitled to at least one nite of drinking for having to deal with that bull, but get off your *** ASAP. Don't feel sorry for yourself too long, that never helped anybody wink

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Alcohol is not the answer. I know, my grandfather was an alcoholic and it killed him in the end. No one missed him either, the man was a monster.

Unfortunately we can be blind when in love. I'm sure you'll sit down and be able to pick the signs that something was wrong in hindsight.

I know when I met Brendan (my hubby) he had been through a very bad break up. His girlfriend of 4 years started seeing another guy and didn't even have the guts to break up with him. He had to do it. She had been a total b*tch to him and he was so unsure of himself it made me want to cry at times.

But he's a different person now, he had a supporting best friend and when we met I accepted him for who he was and he did the same for me.

He has told me that he had thought at the time that the other girl was the one. But he realised since that wasn't the case.

I'm sure the right girl is waiting for you, she may not be around yet. But when the time comes, you'll be so glad that you're not with the girl you thought was perfect. You'll see. Things tend to happen for a reason, there's someone out there who'll love you as much as you love them. It just wasn't this girl.

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Mel is right. And in your case you can be confident that you've "done your job" as a boyfriend and there's nothing you should be blaming yourself for. It's that girl who should be feeling terrible for not being totally honest with you, or not having the courage to tell you her feelings when it mattered.

You've taken a step forward at least since you're here asking for help smile

But no: alcohol is not a solution. It does not "help"... It's a hide-away. You just have to move on. And when you'll be ready for it, you'll find someone else.

If you want to be more like Boba, just think like this: you have a problem going on. What should you do to solve it as efficiently as possible? Is it going to affect your work? What experience can you earn from this?.... These 3 questions, I guess, have worked wonders for me so far wink

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Think about Dr. Jekyll. The serum was a metaphor for alcohol. He turned into a monster.

take it easy baby take it as it comes

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That blows, man, but alcohol does not solve you're problems. They will still be there when you sober up.
I'm in college and drinking is rampant. I feel like my classmates are all in a race to see who needs a liver transplant first.
You know, we're always whining about how guys don't mature until their 20s... well girls don't mature until then either! Teen relationships are very sporadic. Yeah, your feelings will wind up in the toilet a time or two. It hurts.
Take it on the chin for what it is... a lesson in relationships. You'll be thinking of that biotch when you find the woman of your dreams someday.

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i love you guys

so much

Everyone dies.  I bow to no one and I give service only for cause.

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We'll always be here for you wink

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Seriously, you guys are all really smart.  I wish I was naturally like Boba, but I find that I'm more like Anakin... filled with powerful emotions...

Everyone dies.  I bow to no one and I give service only for cause.

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I spent a year of my life thinking I loved a girl too, just to find out she never really cared about me at all. Sorry dude, I know how you feel. But letting your emotions take over you won't help. I spent another year after we broke up being mad at the world....it doesn’t do any good.

"Stop whining. Before you really get me irritated."
     --Boba Fett

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Someone can't break your heart if it is made of stone.

take it easy baby take it as it comes

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Haha, well mine is made of warm clay...

Everyone dies.  I bow to no one and I give service only for cause.

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Honestly, that was not intended as a joke.

take it easy baby take it as it comes

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Yes, that is true. But it's hard to live like that, trust me. I have lived that way for a year and even though it works, it hurts you at the same time...

"Stop whining. Before you really get me irritated."
     --Boba Fett

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and with all the pain in the world, the heart is the thing which many of us would like to have never have had. but remember, to live without passion is to live in peace, but to live without passion means we are truly dead. hearts heal over time, and with that, never lose hope of passions of the heart for if you do, you lose all hope in life.

"...you are free to sever the chains of fate which bind you..."

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.....well said.

"Stop whining. Before you really get me irritated."
     --Boba Fett

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ITS HARD I know!! but believe me it passes, the pain never last forever, I was with a guy about 4 years, im 20, i met him when i was 15, i really thought he was my truly love, and ive never loved anybody like i loved him, but he cheated on me, he obviously didn’t think like me, i was just devastated, imagine, 4 years and then nothing!! i felt i was going to die, so i totally understand you, really and i mean it, but thrust me it will pass and you will feel better soon, you will find someone that really love you, and never leave you, never! so don’t cry for a person that doesn’t deserve it, i know it sound easy and it is not, but think about that there is around still around your real love, your soul mate and it wasn’t her, so came on you can handle this, don’t give up...!!

Set goals along the way and never loose sight of them!!

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I kinda know how you feel dude. I really liked this girl. . We both had myspace. She dumped me on that! How cheap is that! not the right girl. It will be okay! big_smile


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I can't say from personal experience thatI know what your going through. But I have been in the middle of a hell of a lot of breakups between my friends. Looking through this list of comments your probably saying, "I can't just let it go." And we all know its not that easy, you just need to get something to take your mnd off of it. Take up a hobby or try to get a friend to help you loosen up. Just don't punch him in the face when your anger builds up. Its not his fault.

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The thing is, she just rebounded off some other guy who is twenty, and in a band.  She doesn't feel regret, or miss me at all becuase she just replaced me with some other boy.  He likes Star Wars, but he's more of a jedi fan than Boba fan, so we all know he's a noob.

I found this one girl that I thought I liked almost right after I lost my old girlfriend.  I found out yesterday that she wont date me.  She led me on so badly, and I thought maybe she would help me through all this crap.  Now I'm just back to stage "lay on couch and suck at life."

Everyone dies.  I bow to no one and I give service only for cause.

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I know how you feel. The same thing (more or less) happened to me 2 or 3 times with the same girl. She kept coming back and saying "Sorry, I really do love you..." Yeah right, she didn't. Shows how stupid I was. Anyway, as Dark Clone said, it gets better, just give it some time.

"Stop whining. Before you really get me irritated."
     --Boba Fett

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so, you see, everybody thinks the same about it, Jacsveus has been dissaponted too, and many members too, so stop crying!!!
SHE DOESNT DESERVE IT!!!!

Set goals along the way and never loose sight of them!!

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Replacing your old girlfriend isn't the best thing to do. You need time to heal and think things over. You don't want to be jumping into another relationship simply because you're lonely. You're just asking for more heartache.

You're better off hugging your cat or dog and telling them your problem. They won't break your heart or leave you. Once you're over her, then find someone.

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24 (edited by dark clone Tuesday, October 10, 2006 12:19 pm)

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yeap, mel is right, you need to be alone first and think about everything, because if you start searching a new realcion right now, you will just trying to replace what you have with your ex-girlfrien ( i mean the same way to be, the same preferences, the same way to spend time etc), and you would not love the new girl really, cause you were looking your old girl in her...
So please calm down, this will pass, your heart needs to heal, and in order to do it, you must wait, time heals everything!!!

Set goals along the way and never loose sight of them!!